So I have suffered complete hair loss and I cant find a girlfriend. I am 24 years old and all my hair has fallen out I look like an old man I feel so depressed. Iv used different products such as regaine but nothing seems to work. I have spent hours a day just sitting there rubbing regain into my head hoping that I will be able to get 1 strand of hair back.
It has really depressed me I don’t like to leave the house now because I think everyone is going to stare at me it has really shook my self confidence and now I’m at an all time low. I think it all started when I was abit younger I used to put a pot of gel on my head a day before going out to school, people were always telling me your hairs going to fall out one day, but I didn’t care I was young and the wet look was the craze a few years back, what a fool am I should have listened to everyone now I am 24 without no money and no hair.
The doctors do not even want to help me, I went to them to say I was feeling depressed so they can get me one of these hair loss laser treatments that are available all they wanted to do was to send me counselling, I don’t bloody need counselling I need hair on my head what is wrong with everyone these days why do they not want to help me?
absolute crap. anyone can get a girlfriend/boyfriend. This is nothing more than a matter of low self esteem. Accepting who you are, chaning what you can and accepting what you can’t is what will get you with someone. People see the lack of self esteem and then the only people you end up with are people who will walk all over you.
Embrace the baldness. Go totally cueball and shiny and enjoy it! Lots of men look sexy bald. The reason you can’t get a girlfriend is your attitude and lack of confidence, not your lack of hair.
You are a frikkin saddo, there’s nowt wrong with being bald. Get over it and get personality lessons.
I lost my hair when I was 17, completely bald by 22.
It’s nothing to do with hair. It’s about confidence. There are loads of women who find young bald men sexy. You’re being stupid.
Shave it. With a razor. Be proud. Girls will pick up on it.
Whine and try and “fix” it, and you’ll be lonely forever. Trust me.
It’s hard to lose you crowning glory. I can’t just ask you too forget about it because no matter what you do it will still be the same. And I also can’t say that I understand your feeling. What I can say is try to emphasize more on your attitude and the way you bring yourself around. Adversities has its advantages and maybe, just maybe being bald could actually make you look good. So ditch away you low-esteem. If you look down at yourself, then everyone else won’t be looking up to you. Start everything by within you. Besides your present could be just the right tonic to know whether a girl stick with you for you look or if she really sees you with her heart. Damm I’ve crapped too much. Anyway all the best for you. Smile always cause it helps (a lot). =)
My husband is bald and 28 I never knew him with hair. The only person that you being bald bothers is you! If it bothers women then they aren’t worth being with. Like everyone else has said GET OVER IT!!!
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This is how things work: awesome people attractive.
Now, not awesome in the sense that one need to have a Phd in theoretical physics, while also being a national Kung Fu champion who worked his way out of the slums and now spends his free time coaching a junior basketball-team.
No, the OTHER kind of awesome which we ALL carry within. This is quite easy. All one have to do to be trult awesome is to be really good at being what one is: oneself. Being comfortable with ourselves, standing up for what we are. These and other qualities has this radiance about them. Anyone with an open heart will intuitively see this, although perhaps not understand it. Men will respect you, chicks will want you.
It really is that simple. So, do what others above adviced: shave it all off, get a grip of yourself, walk straight and just embrace the awesome within.
Why don’t you join a monastary? You are already bald and celibate, all you need is the robe!
Baldness is sexy. But like curvaceous women, you have to first accept that you look good, then you will project that to others. I’ve never discounted anyone who was bald. Better bald than ugly hair!!
This is all BS. I’m bald too. I make $75,000 a year, have big muscles, and am not fat. I’ve tried online dating and hitting on women at bars, etc. You can get a women if you are bald but more than likley she is not going to be what you want/need. You will lalwys feel that if you just had hair you could get what you want and you’re probably right. The whole “confidence” argument, and “bald is sexy” argument is BS. Some women say they find bald men sexy bu these women saying it are not attractive.